I remember her smile the most from the first time I met her. It’s that kind of smile that makes you want her to be happy all time just so you can see the smile. Perhaps Church does that to Aunty Pearl, because when she’s praising is when you see that smile the most!
She’s the Aunty everyone has to stop special to say hello to as they are passing through via the Hana Highway. She’s the Aunty that legitimizes the teenage road trip. To go home and report, “We wen stop by and visit Aunty Pearl…” almost guarantees permission for a future road trip in the eyes of watchful parents who also love her.
There is a strong possibility that her husband, “Uncle Jr.” aided in her popularity. When he was alive, friends would visit, and visit and more friends would replace the ones that just left. Popular guy, “Unlce Jr.”. And always with Aunty Pearl amusingly waiting to hear him say, “Hon, mix the poi, I going throw net, we going fry ahole’s (fish historically saved for royalty) for everybody!”
Can’t say Sunday was less busy because of church, but that smile began on Wednesday in anticipation of bringing light on the Lord.
Years later, Uncle Jr’s friends still stop by to visit Aunty Pearl. And her days, always full, are replaced with the happy chaos of mo‘opuna (grandchildren). She still mixes the poi but keeps most of her family and fans smiling with her famous, one-of-a-kind coconut candy.
Aunty Aloha through and through, Aunty Pearl.